The debate about who is smarter, stronger, more useful and better has not subsided for many decades, flaring up with serious force, just in recent years, as women successfully conquer new heights, and men try to accept the changes that have taken place. But how do the representatives of the stronger sex actually differ from the beautiful, and is it worth arguing because of this at all.

Differences between men and women

Scientists agree, after studies conducted among schoolchildren, that girls are much worse adapted to study the exact sciences than boys. And it's not about their laziness or a brain that is smaller in weight, but about how it works. At the same time, the female brain, although smaller, is in no way inferior in terms of the number of neurons, since neurons are located in it more often. So in the study of foreign languages, the guys can not be compared with them.

It is easier for women to interact with others, and you definitely can’t argue with this, since what kind of man is able to talk them through. Men are more silent, because their brain is focused on the knowledge of the world around them with the help of what it sees, calculates, studies, learns. They do not need to maintain a lot of contacts, it is more convenient for them to analyze the information received and draw conclusions silently. Maybe that's why they are so often thoughtful and not in the mood for a conversation.

And, all this is laid down by nature and developed over thousands of years of human history. At any time, the women remained in place, always maintaining contact with the members of the tribe, and the men left to hunt for a mammoth, which was easy to frighten off or even worse to anger if they discussed rumors, outfits and huts of each other while tracking him down. In this case, they would have no time for hunting at all, and humanity would have died out. Their families would simply starve to death, as a man who loves to talk would never be able to get food and skins for his family.

Today, little has changed. To succeed in life, they have to think more than discuss plans. Of course, they can negotiate if they are engaged in business, or are leaders, but this is only a necessity. And their whole conversation is clearly thought out and verified. Men discuss work, talking or being interested in something specific, and, having grasped the essence, change the subject or return to work. While women, in order to survive, need to communicate with other women while their husbands are on a campaign for the "mammoth". Because they need to consult why the baby is crying, what to do if the water in the stream is very cold, discuss some intimate moments in order to sort out their thoughts, learn recipes from their neighbors so that the mammoth jelly turns out with fat, and is sweet at its true worth. appreciated her efforts and concern for him.

And, according to some scientists, this is due to an increase in testosterone in boys over a certain period of time. Because of this, their ability to communicate is reduced, but in the future they are able to take risks, break through, get food, protect their family and themselves.

Women, on the other hand, are not so aggressive, and the tasks before them were and are completely different, in order to survive, they needed to be able to negotiate, and not engage in a battle in which they cannot win, since they are physically much weaker than men. True, today if a woman is engaged in martial arts, and men are fond of sitting or lying down, buried in a computer, telephone or TV, she is able to protect herself using painful techniques. But a man who takes care of himself and his physical form, of course, is always stronger. And how else will he provide protection to his beloved and his children from various adversaries.

What is the difference between a man and a woman

• Girls can do several things at the same time, but men are deprived of such an opportunity. They solve only one task at a time. The exact reason for this has not yet been established, but if you look at the responsibilities of women with children, it is not surprising that multitasking is simply vital for them. Otherwise, how would she cope with the children, her husband, household chores, work duties and herself in one day. Men, on the other hand, usually solve large tasks that require all their attention and be distracted by something else, which means there is nothing to achieve. How he would hunt a mammoth if at the same time he calmed down a small child who is teething or thought about what to cook for dinner, and when it is better to wash so that the skin has time to dry, otherwise there is nothing for the baby to wear.
• Men also age differently than women.. Their face wrinkles begin to decorate much later. And it is not known whether this is due to the fact that they have fewer problems and worries than the beautiful half of humanity, or simply due to the fact that they have more collagen, which is responsible for smooth and youthful skin.
• Women's health is better. And they live longer, even in the most developed countries. This is due to several reasons: the propensity of men to take risks, otherwise you will not achieve anything, and the inability to express their emotions. And since they also experience irritation, resentment, pain, grief, hatred, rage and other masses of emotions, but have not learned to share them or, at least for themselves, to recognize their presence and thus somehow work through them, they all add up they have inside. And when there are a lot of them, both women and men have problems, no matter how strong and confident they look, they break out in the form of addictions that very quickly lead to a lot of health problems. Here we can recall the number of cardiovascular diseases, and alcoholism, and drug addiction, and gambling, and online addiction, and much more. Love for crazy speeds, excitement, risky actions, adrenaline addiction, unwillingness to admit psychological problems and problems in general. Here are just a few reasons that lead to such a sad result. Because of this, after a certain age, there are fewer men, although more of them are born than girls.

• The fair sex suffers much more pain than strong due to more nerves. The intensity of pain in girls is much stronger. Women suffer from chronic pain more often, but at the same time, thanks to certain mechanisms, they are adapted by nature to go through such a difficult and painful process as childbirth.
• Girls have a much better sense of smell. By smell, they easily identify men who have the strongest immunity of all. And they easily distinguish unpleasant odors, which is why men often have a hard time.

• And beauties have stronger eyesight. They distinguish shades that men only hear about when women try to find out from them what varnish is best for their nails, or what dress to wear. For them, these are several different shades, but for him, all dresses are the same color. And claims are pouring on the head of a man who is not to blame for anything at all. For him, indeed, many flowers simply do not exist, and not because he is such an inattentive cracker who does not think about his chosen one for days on end.
• True, he also cannot think about her for days on end, unlike her. As already mentioned above, his brain solves one problem at a time. And if he has serious work or a meeting ahead of him, he has no time to read SMS or write back messages.
• Men are less likely to make eye contact, but women almost always do so when they communicate with someone. They are perfectly able to control their facial expressions, but easily adopt other people's emotions, but men control themselves better.

Over the past hundred years, the position of women in society has changed much more than in the past 500 years. Which, undoubtedly, influenced the fact that many were seriously interested in how a man differs from a woman, breaking spears in disputes. This question is often raised by men, who in this way try to maintain their ideas about the position of the sexes. Self-confident representatives of the stronger sex are not interested. Women are more likely to stand up for their rights.

There can be no winners in this dispute, because both men and women have always been different from each other, having their own advantages, thanks to which they have complemented each other perfectly for thousands of years. And what is surprising today is that tomorrow it will become familiar to the majority, and disputes will flare up for completely different reasons, because "Truth is born in a dispute." Therefore, it is better to love each other and accept the way nature created us than to try to find out which of us is better.

Have you ever thought that the current social status of men is deeply rooted in our language?

How often in one sentence there are the words "woman" and man ", and this does not hurt anyone! Very often, in everyday life, such statements are encountered, and are taken for granted.

But who is a "man" in pre-revolutionary Russia? This is a serf, a serf, obliged to work, serving the needs of his masters, without receiving anything in return. It would never have occurred to anyone then to call even the poorest, but free city dweller, a "muzhik." A couple of a man is a woman. Couple Man - Woman.

Today, the word "woman" is considered almost offensive to a woman; the word "man" is the norm. Men in Russia call themselves "men", sometimes in the phrase "real man". Which is etymologically correct.

According to the etymology of the word, "man" is a kind of small (by status) man, that is, limited in some way. Therefore, the serfs were men. Here's what the sources say:

1) A man is an ill-mannered, rude, ignorant person. (New explanatory and derivational dictionary of the Russian language. Author T.F. Efremova.)

2) A man is a Peasant (as opposed to a city dweller) (Explanatory Dictionary, edited by S. I. Ozhegov and N. Yu. Shvedova)

3) A man is an ignoramus, a commoner (Dictionary of synonyms by N. Abramov)

4) Muzhik - a common man, a man of the lower class; peasant, peasant, plowman, farmer, plowman; draft. (From Dahl's dictionary)

5) A man is a convict, conscientiously working in production (criminal dictionary)

6) Man - MEN- and -IK (diminutive) Man - MEN- and -CHIN (everything is clear here) (Spelling Dictionary)

1. "Man" is a synonym for the word "slave"! A serf who is obliged to plow on his masters without receiving anything in return (Gogol "Dead Souls" Chapter 7)

2. I cannot live without Petersburg; why, in fact, should I ruin my life with the peasants? (N.V. Gogol (says the petty official Khlestakov).

3. A man is a little boy, in appearance, posture similar to an adult (based on the poem by N.A. Nekrasov "Peasant Children")

4. In the mouth of the "masters" (before), as well as in peasant life - a peasant.

5. The Oryol peasant is not great in stature, round-shouldered, gloomy. (I.S. Turgenev).

6. I am not a peasant, I am a non-commissioned officer, a retired captain. (A.P. Chekhov).

7. Man (regional and colloquial surname). Men and women, with rakes and scythes on their shoulders, go to work. (I.A. Goncharov).

8. In the same language, "gentlemen" - a rude, ill-mannered person in general (colloquial scorn. obsolete). The man is uncouth.

I wonder, but who is the "real man" then? - The one who, not limp, pulls his serf's strap, like barge haulers from Repin's painting?

Equivalents: "good slave", "fortunate slave", "beloved slave".

When a slave boasts "I'm a real man", he also considers the surrounding men slaves, but only bad, unlucky and unloved slaves. Because he considers slavery a natural form of existence, a common environment. And so he became successful in this environment - "a real man." It turns out that the "real man" is simply impossible to discriminate, just as it is impossible to omit the pubescent one.

It is generally accepted that a "real man" - does not whine, does not cry; "a real man" endures everything; the "real man" leaves with a pair of socks and a toothbrush; a "real man" must serve in the army; A "real man" must ... Yes, in general, he always owes everyone, that's why he is a "man"!

That's it. No wonder one of the tools of ideology is the formation of one's own language. And a man, he is a man - a forced one. But women paint this as a positive quality, because such forced laborers are beneficial to them. A man - he will feed everyone, you just need to give the right instructions. Here is a man from Saltykov-Shchedrin who fed two generals at once:

"And suddenly the general, who was a teacher of calligraphy, was lit up with inspiration...

And what, Your Excellency, - he said joyfully, - if we could find a peasant?

That is, how about ... a man?

Well, yes, simple
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muzhik... what muzhiks usually are! He would have given us a roll now, and he would have caught grouse, and fish!

Hm... a man... but where can I get him, this man, when he's gone?

As there is no man - the man is everywhere, you just have to look for him!

He must be hiding somewhere, slacking off work!

This thought encouraged the generals to such an extent that they jumped up as if ruffled and set off in search of the muzhik.

For a long time they wandered around the island without any success, but at last the sharp smell of chaff bread and sour sheepskin brought them to the trail. Under a tree, with his belly up and his fist under his head, a huge man was sleeping and in the most insolent way avoided work. There was no limit to the indignation of the generals.

Sleep, couch potato! - they pounced on him, - I suppose you don’t know with your ear that here two generals are dying of hunger for the second day! now march to work!"

But that was Shchedrin's muzhik, but the modern muzhik plows from morning to evening like a damned man, serving a whole army of masters. Starting from the power elite and ending with women. There are no rights or laws for men - only plowing to the accompaniment of the whining of "our dearly loved ones" about the fact that the man has gone the wrong way, crushed! And this is where it all becomes clear...

In modern Russia, in fact, there are 2 classes - women who have all conceivable and inconceivable rights, without any duties, and male slaves who must support this circus on their backs.

One gets the impression that men still live like under Nicholas I. Only, then both men and women lived like that, and now there is a privileged sex and there are slaves serving it, who always “must” do something.

To be honest, men and women in Russia have long lived in different worlds: women in the 21st century, in modern times, where there are human rights, social programs, respect for the individual; and the men got stuck somewhere in the early 19th century, during the days of serfdom, with non-economic coercion, lawlessness and complete lack of rights. Accordingly, they have a different standard of living and a different life even in terms of time. For example, the difference in life expectancy between men and women is 14 years, which is fully consistent with the difference between the life expectancy of black slaves and white slave owners in the North American United States also in the early 19th century.

The increased mortality of men in modern society is the result of their living conditions. Modern middle-aged men in Russia, in terms of mortality, live the same way as they lived more than 180 years ago: without electricity, without medicine and in bast shoes on their bare feet!

What conclusion can be drawn from this information? - Yes, very simple. For men, the past centuries have not affected anything in terms of living conditions.

It is known that serfdom was abolished in 1861! True, as it turns out, only for women, they forgot about men somehow.

Well, on the other hand: why pity them, peasants? As they say: "One will die, another will be born - everything is good for business!"

They only exist to serve the interests of others. Moreover, men, for the most part, are in an insane state, not understanding either their shameful position or their absolute lack of rights. And that such a "life" is a purposeful state policy towards them.

This situation is beneficial for the authorities - they have free and disenfranchised male slaves. Women too - they have super-privileges and rights without duties.

Therefore, modern women do not really want to be equal with men, but want to be masters over them; they do not want to be women, but they want to see men as men. Hence women do not like to be called women; but they love the derogatory designation of men. And the praise "real man" means a real slave.

You just need to make polite remarks to those who "blurt crazy." Whoever respects himself and knows how to think will understand that this word is an insult. And it is useless to teach any cattle, it, without obscenities and insults, cannot address each other. It is foolish to demand respect from someone who does not respect himself.

It happens that they object that "Man" does not sound like a man.

In a matriarchal society, very specific concepts of what is masculine. For example, since Soviet times, men have been taught that it is masculine to give everything away, to work for free, not to have rights, and in general to be disenfranchised cannon fodder and working cattle, calling themselves peasants. All this is wrong and directly opposite to masculinity.

For example, in the circle of my acquaintances, everyone already knows the true meaning of this word and try not to use it AT ALL. Or, only mockingly, to those men who fawn over women.

So, if the word "man" is an insult, as it were, MINI, then "real man" is an insult already doubly, as it were, MAXI.

"Real man" is a good name for a lingerie (baborab, henpecked).

By changing the attitude of others around these words, you turn over a bunch of patterns based on it. This is very correct.

I insist that the word "man" is unacceptable for a free man who feels like a Person who has his civil rights and is ready to fight for them.

Of course, stopping the use of the word "man" will not remove all men's problems at once. And changing the address, in itself, does nothing; it must be the result of a change in consciousness, deliverance from a slave psychology.

Everyone is familiar with the slightly rude saying “a man said - a man did”, but most of the representatives of the designated sex do not like this definition of a man too much. The term "man" sounds rude and even slightly dismissive. What is the difference between man and man? How are these words similar? Worth sorting out.

Man and man: definition of terms

Man is an obsolete designation Russian peasant, the context of use is historical. Also, this term is a colloquial designation of a man, in its lexical meaning, emphasizing his strength and rudeness.

Man is the modern name for the representative of the stronger sex. It is used most often to refer to adult "individuals". It has no connotational meanings.

What is the difference between a man and a man?

Both words - both "man" and "man" - are used to refer to the representative of the stronger sex in colloquial speech. Only now the word "man" is more literary, it can also be found in written speech, used in business communication, and so on. The word "muzhik", on the contrary, has a distinct disdainful, negative or even mocking character.

If we consider the historical context, the word "muzhik" is used to refer to an uneducated, rude Russian peasant or a person from other lower classes of society. A man is engaged exclusively in simple manual labor that does not require special skills or knowledge. Representatives of the upper classes were called men.

Today in society it is customary to refer to a man as “man”. Why? The Soviet authorities are “to blame” for everything, the Soviet ideology, which endowed this term with a distinct heroic sense. That is why the initially disparaging naming has taken root so firmly in Russia and the CIS countries, especially in rural areas and remote regions. Villagers today often use the word in everyday speech instead of the more correct term "man".

Often, from not too developed female representatives, you can hear phrases like “What an awesome man! I want the same!" In this case, this is a compliment to the masculinity of the object chosen by such a “lady”, regardless of its intellectual or creative qualities. This designation of a man is rather a praise for a beautiful, strong male from a more than average female.

Developed, self-sufficient, intelligent men, by the way, are offended by such names. Perhaps one of them came up with a sarcastic saying in retaliation for women: “For a man, God created a woman. He created a woman for a man.”

Most people believe that a man a priori has such qualities as will, endurance, stamina and courage, easily assesses the surrounding reality from the position of reason, summarizing the facts. Also, men are considered more active, businesslike and prone to control everything around than women. Women, on the contrary, have better communication skills, they have a more developed intuition.

Opponents of such a rigid division of gender roles believe that the above qualities are not necessarily inherent in all men, but rather imposed on them by historical upheavals and cultural traditions of many centuries.

Before making an opinion on this issue, it must be taken into account that each representative of the stronger sex is a person with his own history, his own characteristics of psychological and physical development. The individuality and character of modern men is formed under the influence of a large number of hereditary and social factors, many of which are not too “masculine” in color.

That is why you should not address a stranger as “man” - this word, even if only a positive connotation is added to it, can offend a person and show the speaker from a completely different side from which he or she wanted to appear.

Conclusions. Differences between a man and a man

1. A man is a common name for all members of the stronger sex. Muzhik is a colloquial, derogatory term for a rude, narrow-minded man.
2. The word "man", by virtue of its general meaning, is devoid of emotional connotation. The word "man", on the contrary, is often endowed with a negative connotation, is derisive or dismissive.
3. Previously, before the formation of the Land of Soviets, simple, rude people from the lower classes were called peasants. Men or husbands, on the contrary, were called representatives of the highest echelons of society.
4. The word “man” today is very often replaced by the name “man” by residents of rural areas or areas where ancient customs have been preserved. The word "man" is more often heard in cities, in centers of business or intellectual activity.

Last joke. With some truth...

The words "man" and "man" have the same root - husband-. In the first case, the suffix " ik", in the second - - rank-. What would that mean? The science of etymology suggests that words in a historical context are formed not at random, but according to clearly defined principles. Therefore, each part of the word has its own, additional meaning, from which information can be gleaned about the origin of the term in question.

So it turns out that a man is a husband with a rank (a successful, ambitious, developed person), and a man is a husband with a hickey (probably from a large amount of cheap vodka drunk the day before).

This morning I was talking to one of my burnt friends about the fact that I can’t stand comments like “I fucked up”. The screams of a wild caveman who has sexual difficulties with women?
She was called either a pedant, or the right one, I don’t remember. Not the point. She said that it was not proper for a man to say such things to any woman. These are the habits of a man. A rude and uncouth man.

I believe that the difference between a man and a man is simply huge.
Even at the first meeting, it is not difficult to understand who is in front of you. No, I'm not talking now about the fact that a man smells good, but a man smells of sweat. Men also use good perfume, thinking that it will hide all their redneck behavior. It's all about behavior and mannerisms.
I will never go on a second date if the male representative does not know how to behave both in public places and tete-a-tete.
Why do some males allow swearing at the first meeting? Demonstrating that everything is in order with vocabulary? Rather, it suggests the opposite. I think swearing would be appropriate in a male company over a mug of beer with roach, but not in front of a girl with whom they hardly know each other.
What about behavior in public places? For example, you drink coffee, and then flat jokes begin that go below the waist, then an attempt to hug ... But the worst thing is if a rude man goes to see you home. This is where the demonstration of the male's intentions begins - they will boringly ask you for coffee / tea, an attempt to hug you and kiss you slobberingly. Just foo!
I have a lot of examples of the behavior of redneck men, but I don’t want to go into details. As a rule, either you immediately leave the meeting, saying everything in the forehead, or you simply do not go to the second meeting. Everything is extremely simple.
But the redneck men cannot communicate with me - the truth does not please anyone in the face, cynicism does not amuse. In a word, they feel the difference well. Girls should be chosen by yourself, dear men! Everyone wants smart, beautiful, but they find everything to the best of their ability and do not try to jump above your head! Looks funny!
I'm not saying that I'm all so correct, but I'm still that aesthetic. And on the first date, I kissed more than once. You just need to know how to behave.

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This morning I was talking to one of my burnt friends about the fact that I can’t stand comments like “I fucked up”. The screams of a wild caveman who has sexual difficulties with women? Was called either a pedant, ...

The differences between men and men are quite large. Of course, if we take into account only the sound of words, then everything is clear, because we are talking about a male person. As for the opinion of women, not the same people are called peasants and men.

Men's psychology is simpler than women's, but this does not mean that you can fully understand your loved one. Your beloved will remain a dark forest for you, but you can always determine by his behavior who he is for everyone around him - a simple “man” or a real man.

Who is the "man"

Males are often referred to disparagingly as peasants. This is a kind of simplification, as in the case of "women" and women. In general, this is an old word that the entire history of Russia was used to call simple peasant hard workers. In the modern world, this word has acquired a completely different meaning.

A man is a kind of stupid version of a man, devoid of brightness and beauty, full of disgusting male habits. Men are those who do not take care of themselves and do not know how to communicate with ladies. Some people like just such uncouth and straightforward simpletons.

The main difference between a man is his way of thinking. It is full of stereotypes that just kill with their stupidity. He sees himself as the head of the family, he considers himself the best, smartest and most beautiful, although this is sometimes not at all the case. This word refers to those who can raise a hand against a woman, do not know how to behave in society and do not appreciate its moral principles. This is not the one who swims against the current, but the one who strives to be part of the image created in antiquity of the invincible hunter and breadwinner, whom everyone kisses his hands and whom everyone fears like fire.

Nevertheless, among typical men there are quite pleasant people who are as simple as two and two, but have some upbringing, can show respect for others.

Who is a "man"

It is natural for a man to be strong, but not to take advantage of the weak. The man is firm but fair, diplomatic but strict in some situations. He is educated and cultured, has a small number of stereotypes in his mind. It’s not scary to appear in public with him, because he will never be ashamed of him.

There is something to talk about with a man, you can trust him with secrets, you can expect generosity and understanding. He accepts criticism and can admit his mistakes. Not all women like those who do not make any mistakes. Yes, it can be boring with a man because he is calm and reasonable, but this does not mean that he does not have a sense of humor. On the contrary, in the classical understanding of women, a real gentleman must have a sense of humor. The ideal male representative is always ready to apologize for a harsh statement or for some other mistake. He knows how to turn a woman on with both words and touches.

Whom to choose

This is purely your choice, because how many people, so many desires. Men will always be in demand, and men and gentlemen will never cease to be a delight for sophisticated ladies. If you choose some kind of universal option for all occasions, then a man will be better than a simple man, but do not forget that there are not so many pure representatives of one of the species. It is better if your chosen one has the features of both subspecies: 50 to 50.

The most successful option is a man, but with a peaceful character and the right sense of humor, but this is also just one of many special cases that not everyone, although many, may like. Choose not only with your heart, but also with your head. It is very difficult to fix a man, so it is better to know in advance all his disadvantages.